Friday, April 13, 2007

Forgotten Feelings

For years now I have been quite cynical about love, believing that it's a self imposed illusion, ... not deliberately of course, but self imposed nevertheless. Imagine 50 men and 50 women on an island. Each man will unconsciously choose a woman and target those feelings he needs to feel, feelings of need, trust, admiration, and sexual attraction towards her. Now let them be 20 men and 20 women, ... the same will happen. Let me say it another way, if a certain man has a variety space of 40 women in his social circle, he will choose one and "love" her, now let's cut this circle in half, removing his beloved in the process and leaving him just 20 women, I believe he will still choose one and direct his feelings towards her. In that sense, love can be viewed as a sophisticated, unconsciously self imposed illusion!!

But then, ... and few days ago, I was shocked off my feet. I met that girl, and I was totally impressed, felt some feelings I thought myself incapable of. Feelings I hadn't experienced their like in 6 to 7 years. This is not self imposed, or I would have imposed it on myself much earlier. Wouldn't be feeling void all that long. My theory has to be somehow flawed.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Me again...I commented on a previous post for you. Well...good you are trying to give yourself a chance. Bear in mind anything in life may success or fail...anything, even relationships. Try not to take things so hard but also don't prohibit yourself from trying avoiding failure. Although we all hate to fail, sometimes failure teaches us many useful lessons. As I told you before, have hope. ISA rabena ykrmk lly feh kherak. Have faith in's very important. Hmm...and Think Pink :)