Friday, April 13, 2007

Contrato Novus

Know here, I do not swear undying, unfaltering love, not to you nor to any other, not now nor ever, my experience taught me that love dies, fades, and changes, even the fervent type, ... sometimes converts to even more fervent hatred and spite.

But let's agree, to love, respect and care for each other, support and relief each other, enhance each other's lives, as long as we both want to, until one or both of us want out.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Maybe I don't know why you are saying this but I don't agree with you. Love cannot turn into hatred!!! True love cannot turn into that extreme!! how come? Hatred is a very very big word...huge meaning...don't load your heart with such feelings!!! Don't believe such ideas because maybe you were hurt once or twice by someone you loved. Maybe that one is saying the same thing...maybe she's in hurt too because of you. People always do that...each one of the two involved in a relationship thinks that the other is the one who started the hurt and caused the pain. People are not alike. The degree you love someone and the way you express that love is not the same with all those you know. So each time try to start with a new hope that things may succeed this time. I know it's not easy to put aside the previous experiences and just ignore them. But at least have hope...to help yourself...to give yourself and give that relationship a chance. I'm telling you that because I was once hurt too!